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Mary Ann Lowry 10/31/2000

Thanks Lauren! This is a great site. Please add sacro-illiac instability as apossible culprit for vulvar pain. This problem cause by lax ligaments refers pain to the vaginal, vulvar, groin area and causes extreme debilitating muscle spasms that cannot be solely addressed through physical therapy. I know because after 5 years I learned that I had an orthopedic problem not a gynecological problem. Thanks for spreading the word. Recovery is possible for all.We just have to find the right ticket. Mary Ann


 

Amy 10/31/2000

I want to be me again. I don't want to hurt every single day of my life. I want to live again. The pain is real, and it has a cause. We need someone to find out what is causing our misery.


 

Donna

Thank you for this site!! Have had VVD for 4 years and and no longer feel alone as I hear from others.
Here's hoping for better cures!!


 

Laura DeStefano 10/31/2000

15 year sufferer. Sometimes the only thing that keeps me sane is reading other stories like my own. Even after I was diagnosed by my OB-GYN, my primary care physician said that the condition does not exist. When will the medical community recognize this illness.


 

Lois 10/31/2000

I want to be able to sit through a movie. I want to wear underwear, stockings and dresses that aren't to my knees again. I want to wash with any soap that's on sale. I want to make love to my husband. I want to laugh and be happy again. I want to go back 12 years and be me again. I want to know what went wrong. I want to know how to fix it.


 

Kathy Andrews 10/31/2000

Thank you, Lauren, for getting this going. We need all the exposure we can get. I've been dealing with this for over 20 years, but was only diagnosed about 3 years ago. I'm mostly under control right now, but it doesn't take much for me to flare up. Anything we can do to "get the word out" will help.Kathy Andrews


 

Karen Fowler 10/31/2000

Always hoping. . .


 

Rebecca from Australia 10/31/2000

I've had Vulvar Vestibulitis all my life (well since as long as I can remember) and was only diagnosed as having it in March 2000. I'm 19 years old and was happy to find out what was wrong with me... but the happiness was short lived when I realised that I couldnt just pop a pill to make it better. As I became more aware of this condition, and others that have it and also after visiting many support sites I realise that most people who have vulvodynia suffer in silence. I just wish it were more public and that there was more understanding of it so that maybe someone will care and take notice and want to help us.


 

Marilyn Schmidt 10/31/2000

I have had vulvodynia for 12 years and counting. I have burning pain even without intercourse and cannot find a pattern to it. I have been through many courses of treatment and feel like a laboratory rat. I have had 3 laser surgeries, many creams and many drugs. I have found no relief. I pray for a cure every day. I agree with some of you that if this were a 'man' problem, there would already be a cure. Look at viagra. Men can't have sex, so they make a pill so they can. What about us?I have not had intercourse for probably 5 years and at this point I have no desire to.Thanks Lauren for the chance to speak out.


 

fryatt 10/30/2000

It's hard to understand why more hasn't been done. It's also mindboggling to think so many women have this. Would it still be so unknown and untreated if it was "penile-dynia"? I will fight to stay positive and envision a cure. Thank you, Lauren, for setting such a wonderful example.


 

Deborah 10/30/2000

Thanks for the site. I've been suffering from vulvodynia since 1994. I have found very little help from the medical community. Most of what I've learned is from researching on my own. This is inexcusable. Doctors MUST stay current. We are supposed to be paying them for their knowledge. Yet, even at the beginning of my ordeal, I had two gynecologists who didn't even THINK to test me for atypical yeasts: they just kept trying to treat me for the standard "yeast infection" -- the typical strand. It's pretty discouraging, since this IS their field!I hope this site helps to get the word out to the medical community: We are here and we need help!


 

Lisa Mulvaney 10/30/2000

I have been a vulvodynia sufferer for 2 years now. While some treatments have improved my ability to cope with the pain, I am still dealing with some form of it constantly. I am 30 years old. My hopes, dreams, and goals for the future have all been impacted by this disease. It has taken a toll on my overall health, personal relationships, and livelihood. This is a vicious, cruel, disease that deserves to be acknowledged by the medical community. Vulvodynia is destructive and disabling, and can take a terrible toll on the life of one who is afflicted with it.


 

chiara 10/30/2000

hope a cure will be found soon, congrats for teh site from ItalyChiara


 

charlotte 10/30/2000

After 8 months of pain and discomfort, I pray for help from the medical community.


 

Marcille Jordan 10/29/2000

I applaude Lauren's efforts to get recognition from the medical community and the drug companies. It is my hope the great numbers of suffering women will be heard and research to find the cause and hopefully a cure for vulvodynia will become a reality. It is heartbreaking to say the least when good-intentioned doctors can only say to their patient "I don't know of anything else that will help you." This should be an outrage to the medical community. Hopefully they will be outraged and embarassed enough to contribute to research of vulvodynia.


 

Diana 10/29/2000

We need help now. Please help us find the cure or at least effective treatment to help us live with this awful condition.


 

Candace 10/29/2000

I would be interested in at least attempting to find out how many of us suffer from vulvar pain. If we could all speak out, if we could find a famous spokesperson, if we could get some national attention, we might find that there are many more of us out here than we could guess. Strength and help come only in numbers.


 

Stephanie 10/28/2000

You Go Girl! I just found your website tonight Lauren through the Vulvar Pain Forum I belong too. I have been suffering for almost a year and I am 26 years old. I live in New Jersey. I was finally diagnosed in September even though it took 7 doctors to tell me I had this horrible disorder. I figured it out when it first started on my own through internet searching. I hope you have some pain free days and I look forward to visiting your site! Take care! Stephanie


 

Amy F. 10/28/2000

i am newly diagnosed and have dealt with the symptoms for over a year now. it is no picnic, but hopefully with efforts like these we can put an end to the suffering.


 

Rebecca Wilson 10/28/2000

I've had vulvodynia for about 10 years. I have a very compasionate gyn, but she doesn't know how else to treat me, because she has tried everything. Lauren, you have covered everything that we feel and go through. Thank you for being our voice.


 

Katherine Profeta 10/28/2000

I absolutely agree with the entire letter. Time to get this condition noticed and addressed by the medical community.


 

Kristy 10/28/2000

Hi Lauren,The site looks good. I've not been doing all that well b/c of infections, etc but other than that I'm hanging in there. I will tell you more about me at a later date.Take care and a job well-done!!